Transform the Bad into Good.

Don't cry because it is over, Smile because it happened.

Thursday, November 24, 2011

The One That Got Away - Katy Perry

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDTouU0iABA

Oh My Gosh! Im so into this song!
It brings back all those memories that you never wish to forget or unable to forget.
I love the lyrics, there are just simply awesome!!
Although it is a song for a heartbroken person, but the word are just so meaningful.
It gives you hope and faith for tomorrow. 

Sunday, July 31, 2011

YOU AGAIN!

Today, I am here to blog about you again! Yeah, I meant you, and is only you. What can I say about you? Although, you tried, and I tried, to move further away from each other, but we failed to because we kept meeting, chit chatting, joking and laughing like how we did for the first time.

You and I thought that when you shift out to eastlake, we'll not be closer already. In fact, you didn't plan to come and find me in Westlake. This is what we predicted but what happened was the other way round.It was a total 360 degrees turn. As they said, unexpected thing happens at unexpectedly. Without realizing, our bond were the same. Never changed at all. Not even a single percent.  Seriously, I dont know how to be grateful for having you as my friend or my soul mate. You are such a precious gift of God to me.

You have always been there for me like how you used to be.You always lend me your ears for me to talk to when I feel sad, You have have shared your joy for each of my happiness, you have always been so concern on me like how you were before this (esp when it comes to my body), when I feel angry you always let me show my anger towards you, you kept listening to all my craps and my broken word( where I always say things and wouldn't do it) and when I needed someone, you and your advices are there for me. Not even a time is when you've let me down. 

This semester, in Oral Communication class, we enjoyed all the time. Laughing ~ thats what we really did. And most importantly when it came to assignment, you helped me a lot. The fact that touched me the most is that in this entire 10 weeks, you did not trouble neither let me down. You cycled from Eastlake to Westlake whenever we had discussions. You were just like my right hand in this event where you did many things for me. Besides you, Wei Quan was also there to accompany me to buy stuffs. Now when I have problem, I can only talk to you because only you get my exact feeling. Especially assignment wise, luckily you're there with me.

It was YOU who made me felt confident in each decisions that I made. I know no matter what happens , your support for me will always be there. No matter which decision I take, you will understand. 

Your friendship makes me move on and take another step forward. I treasure you, and I feel sorry for those who let go off you. They really did lost a precious person like you. I truly understands your friendship and will value it. So many people have lost a great person like you, and I proudly say that I never regret holding you until now. Thank you so much for treating me well. I had to reveal the truth that only you and I know the truth that no one could have took care of me and treated me well better than you. I don't regret coming into your life although at times you regretted meeting me. :P 

You're the best Hann You! 

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Oral communications

My topic for the day was Multicultural Diversity at Workplace. How do I find my performance? Frankly speaking I wasn't really satisfied with my presentation although my friends said I presented well. Guess I really Gabra-ed in the beginning but as I continued speaking, I managed to cope up with the flow. Personally I felt towards the ending my presentation were on the track. Well what I can say is that we can't expect for a perfect outcome for every thing. We do mistake so that we can improve, and each of us did mistakes. Its up to us either we learn or we ignore. For me, I think there are few ways not to screw up our presentation. Let me share this with you guys
1. Prepare earlier for your script, and instead of memorizing the entire script, you should just remember the keypoint you would like to deliver to the audiences.
2. Don't do it for the sake of doing it. Talk for changes, and it bring alot of difference.
3. Be confident. Confidence is the key element in your presentation.
4. Take a deep breathe before you present.
5. Ignore those scary eyes that are looking at you. Get into your topic and know your mission is to create awareness!
6. Emotion, show the Emotion that you feel when you present.
7. Feel comfortable with yourself on stage. Dare to make mistake.
8. If there are any technical error, dont freak out, relax and tell them the message you would like to deliver to them.
9. Look at your friends if they attend your presentation. Look at them and talk first, and later when you got the flow, you can look at others.
10.Hold the mike tightly when you are nervous.

This is what I learnt in my presentation. If you could do this, maybe you may improve your presentation. I hope we all can improve our presentation skills! =)

Friday, May 27, 2011

I will break these chain that binds me, Happiness Will find Me

To all my friends who never get through this semester, I am sorry to hear about it. I knew how it exactly felt when you failed a subject. Although my results for this semester is not excellent, but I am very satisfied with it. Firstly I would really thank God for letting me pass through this semester successfully. One day before the exam, I received something very surprising and I thought my world almost ended. I was very down, and my heart were so weak and pain. To add on, that I had no one to lean on, to cry to was like hell. I almost want to give up on my course but then I never lost faith in God.One day before the results were out, I prayed to God saying that "If I do really belong to this course and can excel in this course, make me pass all this subjects. If not, I am willing to change my course." And the next day, It was a miracle for me. How much I cried was how much I felt happy on my results. Seeing my results with my family members were awesome. The feelings were great! The first person I called were my parents and they were so happy with it. And now I truly knew who would really feel happy when I pass all my subjects and get a good result. Thanks to my brother who was so excited for me, my sister and Vejeya and not forgetting Hann You who was excited when he passed and I myself passed too! hahahaa! And,  knowing that I still have a friend who I can talk to, who is still there for me warms my heart. Thanks for sill trusting me, my friend. Thanks you so much to this people who came in my life! My friends out there, although this semester could be a disappointment to you all, don't ever give and lose faith in God. God is always there  for us as well as our family members. They would want to see us being success and let us all work hars on the upcoming semester and make them all proud of us. Remember, if we have no education in todays world we will never be respected. So, to be respected by others, we have to earn for it! So lets work our ass out of it for our future!

Friday, April 15, 2011

We have all these Criterias


Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down

A good friend is a connection to life - a tie to the past, a road to the future, the key to sanity in a totally insane world



A friend accepts us as we are yet helps us to be what we should 


Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things.


Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you.  They are not perfect but are always perfect for you.


If you're alone, I'll be your shadow.  If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder.  If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow.  If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile.  But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me.



The best kind of friend is the one you could sit on a porch with, never saying a word, and walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've had. 


It is the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter. 



A true friend reaches for your hand and touches your heart

True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable


Friendship is one mind in two bodies


No road is long with good company


A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walk out


A true friend is someone you can disagree with and still remain friends.If not, they weren’t true friends in the first place.


True friends are very difficult to find, hard to leave, and impossible to forget.


When you look around and your world is crumbling or when you think no one loves you, your best friend is the one to run to you.


Thick and thin, tall and small, fast and slow. Tell me who is always there for you. I am sure you know. Your best friend, of course, don’t let him or her go


*I’ll catch you when you fall, I’ll dry your tears when you cry, I’ll lead your way when your lost, I’ll fight away your fears when your scared, but I wont leave your heart in two.*


if you and a friends were fighting over a cookie, yor friend would give it to you…but a best friends would take the whole thing and say…haha! too slow loser!


friends are for now, best friends are forever

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Hard lessons Quotes

>>Why does it take a minute to say hello and forever to say goodbye?

>>How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard. 

>>Some people come into our lives and quickly go.  Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.




>>Promise me you'll never forget me because if I thought you would I'd never leave




>>If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden.



A goodbye isn't painful unless you're never going to say hello again.


~people say you don't know what you've got till it's gone . truth is , you knew what you had , you just never thought you'd lose it .~
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.~
~You can close your eyes to things you don’t want to see, but you can’t close your heart to things you don’t want to feel.~
~Missing u is not the hard part, knowing I once had you is what breaks my heart.~

~Trying to forget someone important is like trying to remember someone you never knew~

Monday, April 11, 2011

I am Growing Up

When I look back at things, I realized I am growing up. It is my journey to grow up and get stronger. What others says to me doesn't really matter anymore. Before this, when I heard of any negative feedback from friends or strangers, I will feel down, emo and regret. Today, I learnt how to be ignorant. It never affect me even a little bit, it never made me feel down, it never make me stopped from doing things that I want. I have already found my way to be happy and unaffected by others. The truth is everyone have complaints towards one another, but ask yourself if you have complaints towards yourself. I've grown today, resist my temptation and I want to be a better person. What you need to do to be a better person, is to focus on your path and ignore things that will pull you far away from success. Yes, too much of hurt will one day make you become numb, fade away your feelings and give you the capability to accept that not everyone can accept you for who you are. All you need in life is to focus on who you are and be true to yourself. If you cant accept me at my worse, you dont deserve my best. Thanks to one of my friend who told me that he had received certain complaints on me. Was that a concern, or what, I dont know, but all I know is he wants me to change. Thank you for the concern, but I wish to be who I am. If I start considering for others, I will not be able to survive in this world. I can see changes in me, and this time I thank my best friend again for the lesson he taught me in my life because it is helping me. I am ready to face the world now! :)

Thursday, April 7, 2011

If it was a Friendshit, I have no regrets.

My bestfriend, feels friendship is friendshit, and friendship is bullshit. Although, he always would have told me this phrase, but he fell into the mud called friendship as well. He thinks that he have escaped from this friendship risk, but he doesnt realize he kept falling into the mud again and again. Who is the friendshit am i talking about? It is him, Wong Hann You. He is not a perfect guy as others but all I know is he was a perfect friend in my eyes. In other words, he is a perfect best friend to me. He helps me whenever I need him, he cared for me more than anyone, when many people forgotten me, he was there for me, when we both felt lonely, he is the one who was waiting right behind there for me to turn back to. When everyone had their own partners, we both had only each other with us to rely on. When every was against us, we two was the only the loyal supporters for one another.
 When I turn back when I am sad, I see him. When I turn back when I am hurt, all I see is him again. When I want to share my tiniest happiness, I see him again. He is a friend who is all worth for me too fall into this trap called Friendshit. He is a trap called Friendshit which I will never forget no matter what. He is a friend, and more like a family member for me in Kampar. We both could share the same food, the same straw, the same spoon without worrying whether we will be infected by AIDS. Most of all we never had looked at each other as a scum or dirt. We never differentiated our race where I am an Indian and he is a Chinese. Anything is possible between us, nothing could stop both of us. Our friendship never cared if we were Chinese, Indian or what. All we had is a true and beautiful friendship.
Writing about him today , may mean nothing to others, but the reason why I wrote this is because I just want to let everyone know how beautiful a friendship can be. How I could survive without my parents in Kampar. How I could get true all the trouble with more confidence. There are a few pictures we took together, I may not look beautiful, or he may not look good in the picture, but those memories in the pictures were just simply very beautiful.


this was when we never noe we will get closer.

in sue ann's bday, now only i realize u was beside me..

this was penang trip, we were closer to some other people that time

in penang jetty


the three of us...i din noe we got this picture

haha..i feel like laughing seeing this picture

we all at Perangin mall, we two not sitting together

i wanted to go for walking after eating alot in penang, that time you and au yong 
willing to accompany me to go for walking at gurney drive

this in kek lok si, u said thatu never took picture together with me

we all wanna go bc hometown ald

again we all

this was in the bus stop before going back

all of us together



this is after our genting trip..the day i delayed my train cz i wan spend more time with u
before i go back ipoh... whahaha

remember this? it was this day where i start to become close to u.. we two only had each other to rely on

we both wearing black and white =)

this was in the lake..our shadow

this was in my hometown Seremban where u came all the way for me. thank you.

you, that time din talk properly with me.. you got character problem :P

we in genting..it suppose to be we both sit together, mana tau wen xi also wan play..hehe

we all..hehhe

in genting after playing the ship... suddenly i remember how meiling screamt..lol

this in KL...our xmas trip... omg, if u never said something, many thing wouldnt have changed..

this in sunway lagoon...remember i wanna learn swimming bt mana tau au yong n me cant swim pulok..haiz


i asked why u stand so far away frm us? now i can understand..u were moving far away frm us...=(



this one, you and my hidden face, this trip i wont forget.
this shoes we both together...bt we kena tipu pulok..haiz

I wished I could be closer to you even from the beginning after knowing you. Thank you very much for everything you have done for me. No one can ever replace your position as my best friend. Although I realized it too late, but I never regret, coz finally I had know how much you mean to me and I could thank you for that now. You're seriously a friend which is very rare to meet. Maybe I wont meet a friend like you in future, so all I want is to be grateful to God for giving me the chance to be closer to you