I gotta agree everything happens for a reason. And let me highlight the point that it happens for a GOOD reason.
When a person is hurt because of someone, let it be your family , friends , best friends or lover, it has some lesson behind it. Plenty of us tend to just get hurt and keep being emotional all the time, neglect the people around us when someone special hurts us. Some relationship were not meant to last forever, because it will teach us a good lesson. Recently i was encountering the same problem, and I was sad for few days until there was a point when it reached the final full stop. One of my cousin told me, "10 years from now, let me know if it was for bad or good change instead" and that is when I realized that it was definitely for GOOD. I am determined now, not to get hurt for others anymore, I can just let go of anyone, I will change myself from the worst to the best and I will put all the effort I have put in on my relationship to be diversed into my studies. I will never make anymore mistakes and allow others to even have a single point where they can complain about myself. The next time when you meet me, I've changed, to someone who is worth not to be lose. If I were about to be asked if it was for bad or good, it was for Good, I will answer that with no regrets. There is always a room for improvement. I've made up my mind and I will carry on with my life.
To those who did hurt me , thank you so much for making me to be a better person. It was for good that you hurt me so much that I can't even cry anymore.
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